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Legacy-building is not derived from a legacy building

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The intention of legacy is a killer.

Many nonprofits in the arts have chosen to engage in massive fundraising efforts to build buildings.  But buildings in and of themselves are not your duty.

A capital campaign is like raising money for launch pads. NASA’s mission is to “pioneer the future in space exploration, scientific discovery and aeronautics research.” Not “build the best launch pad.”

Your nonprofit’s mission may tangentially benefit from capital expenditures.  But when EDs, ADs, or philanthropists intentionally attempt to leave a legacy by building venues, they put the organization at risk of irrelevance.  Some call that the “Edifice Complex.”

The building may last, but the company may die from spent energy, mission drift, and rationalizing programming for the new space.

Your legacy with a nonprofit organization ends when you leave.  As it should be.

You’re faking it. You know you are. So why would you hire someone who knows less than you do?

Deep in your soul, you understand that you have no idea what you’re doing.  You’ve been faking it for years.

You have years of experience and an important-sounding title.  But you know the truth.

Now that it’s time to hire someone to report to you, who do you want?

“Someone young I can mold,” said an ED acquaintance recently.  What he meant was, “Someone who won’t outshine me in front of my board.”  Idiot.

“Someone who has fought the fight,” said a board member I know.  “Someone who can offer great perspective and can innovate intelligently.”  Wise.

We are imperfect. We have weaknesses.  So when you accept that you don’t know everything, the best thing you can do is hire to those weaknesses.

When you do, you’ll be a leader.  Until then, you really are a fake.

The black ten goes on the red Jack, Jack

The worst thing you can say is “I’m too busy.”

There are reasons, remedies, and repercussions available here and here and here.

Therefore:

If someone you know calls, call them back.  Don’t write.  Call.  Today.

If someone you know writes, write them back. Or call. Today.

If you have an appointment with someone, do not text them a “crazy busy” excuse in the hopes they’ll go away.  Meet.  You said you would. Passive aggressiveness is still aggression…and it’s repugnant.

Be fifteen minutes early. Honoring time is the ultimate respect.

Stop being afraid that people will catch you playing Solitaire.  We know you’re playing Solitaire.  Everyone’s playing Solitaire of a kind.  We’re not actually speaking with other people, seeking ideas and help, or evolving curiosity.

If we only express things we already know, then how do we grow?

Neither artists nor nonprofit arts organizations are entitled, they just act that way sometimes

Every kid wins trophies.

There are two possible takeaways from this fact:

a) Trophies don’t mean much; or
b) Every kid deserves trophies.

Or both.

If a), then the result is that external recognition must be useless.  Which means:

1)      We reward mediocrity.
2)      We foster cynicism to greatness.

If b), then the result is that external recognition must be unrelenting. Which means:

3)      We reward everything.
4)      We foster entitlement to greatness.

I have rarely seen folks as entitled as those in the performing arts today, at least here in Seattle, the epicenter of externally-based self-esteem.  I’ve known dozens of actors who have insisted that they’re too talented to audition. Dozens more of nonprofit arts organizations feeling too holy to follow a mission.

Consider: Oscar Isaac had to audition for the role of Llewyn Davis. It wasn’t handed to him.

Positive Signs in the Nonprofit Arts Community

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Some nonprofit arts organizations are making new, better choices – and it’s working.

One theater company, eschewing the managing director template (part operations director, part fundraiser, part CPA), has chosen to split the duties. They’ve brought on a strategy director to handle outside duties (fundraising, speaking, lobbying) and strategic plan piloting. The operations and financial duties lie with the general manager.

One children’s arts company, eschewing the arts-revenue template (part production house, part arts education academy), produces in the same facility as several social service agencies.  They incorporate the other nonprofits into everything they do, produce a specific style of performance art that speaks to the values of their ethnically, linguistically diverse neighborhood, and gauge success by how well all the nonprofits are bettering the lives of their constituents.

New prototypes. New measurements. New realizations.  Excellent work.

“Here we go, Rembrandt, here we go!” – Fans (who cheer) or audiences (who hear)?

“HOLD THAT NOTE! HOLD THAT NOTE!”

“PUSH ‘EM BACK! PUSH ‘EM BACK! NOW STEP, TOUCH, JETÉ AND HOLD!”

“S-C-E-N-E, SCEE-EEENE, SCEE-EEENE!”

Years ago, I sat in the third-to-top row of an NFL stadium with an artistic director friend.  First game of the season. Even people behind us were screaming their heads off and waving their foam fingers.  And the experience was more personally meaningful to them than many arts experiences I’ve loved.

Sports fans no more control the action of a game than arts fans do a play or concert. But they’re encouraged to be blitheringly engaged. And all too often, arts fans are encouraged to sit back and relax. Or shut up and listen. Like a lecture at school.

We wondered, can arts organizations find ways to encourage blithering? Or are we too clubby for that?

Moribund companies value success. Great companies value happiness.

 

At four, it’s about happiness.

At fourteen, it’s all about responsibility.

At twenty-four, it’s all about ambition.

At thirty-four, it’s all about success.

At forty-four, it’s all about ambition.

At fifty-four, it’s all about responsibility.

At sixty-four, it’s all about happiness.

At seventy-four, it’s all about happiness.

At eighty-four, it’s all about happiness.

At ninety-four, it’s all about happiness.

Happiness trumps everything.  Leadership is all about recognizing that.  We have a better idea what it takes to be happy than what it takes to be successful.  Understandably, those who achieve their own personal happiness only in success do not recognize that perfect, long-lasting happiness is found only when providing happiness to others. Never underestimate happiness as a motivator.

When you value happiness, you will lead a great company. Until then, all you are doing is managing one.